I AM BREAKING GENERATION CURSES

 

I will not get pregnant in high school or at young age. I will graduate from college. I will not marry a low life. I will set goals for my life and I will follow them. I will not have breast cancer. I will not have a heart attack. I will live to see 90 + years of age. I will be a healthy person at an old age. I will follow my dreams. My family will love in spite of.

These are the generation curses my sister and I have to break. We have done some of them already. My mom, her mom and her mom’s sisters all had children at a young age or in high school and same for my dad’s side of the family as well. My sister and I are the first to be the one without children on graduation . My grandmother broke the breast cancer curses that was on this family so we don’t have to do that one. But for the rest of them we do. All I can say is that we as a team is going to have fun breaking all of this CURSES!!!!!!!!!!

                                           

Independent woman

What is an independent woman?  a woman how don’t need a man. A woman who can handle her own. A woman who has her racks up. A woman who pays her own bills. A woman who keeps herself looking good for her and not no man.

This  saying "Independent Woman" has been going  around for years now. People putting their own meaning to this word.  It is an ideological impression to believer in no doubt, successful, and educated women in a male dominated society. Being an educated woman myself, I completely agree that women can and should  be able to achieve such a status. However, women often have to put up a fight in order to receive the proper recognition. Possibly that's where the term "Independent Woman" came from.  

Why is it that we relate that term with freedom, unlimited sexual experiences, relaxation, and confidence? "Independent Woman" somehow seems to have a negative connotation to men. Often men mock this concept and associate it with women not needing men or even wanting them. This simply is not true for all "Independent Women", but then who is an "Independent Woman" anyway?